Power, Privilege, and Play: A Primer on Healing Through Anti-Racist, Kink-Affirming Care
Jul
25
9:00 AM09:00

Power, Privilege, and Play: A Primer on Healing Through Anti-Racist, Kink-Affirming Care

In this upcoming workshop, I lead an exploration of how systemic and institutionalized inequity shows up in clinical framework and practice and provides an alternative narrative where kink is held as not only a healthy manifestation of sexuality but as an avenue for healing.

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Power, Privilege, and Play: A Primer on Healing Through Anti-Racist, Kink-Affirming Care
Jul
24
9:00 AM09:00

Power, Privilege, and Play: A Primer on Healing Through Anti-Racist, Kink-Affirming Care

In this upcoming workshop, I lead an exploration of how systemic and institutionalized inequity shows up in clinical framework and practice and provides an alternative narrative where kink is held as not only a healthy manifestation of sexuality but as an avenue for healing.

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 UCI Gender Diversity Program's Transgender Health Community Conference
Mar
15
12:00 PM12:00

UCI Gender Diversity Program's Transgender Health Community Conference

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Join me at UCI Health Gender Diversity Program’s first annual Transgender Health Community Conference on March 15, 2020. I’ll be there representing Gather & Grow OC with Ami Amimoto.

Stick around as I’ll be facilitating the presentation + panel “How Do I Know I’m Doing the Right Thing?” from 3:15pm - 4:05pm at Tamkin Hall.

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Mindful Slow Flow Yoga Class
Jan
24
7:50 PM19:50

Mindful Slow Flow Yoga Class

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I’d love for you to come join me on Thursday nights from 7:50 pm - 8:50 pm for a Mindful Slow Flow class. Every BODY will be welcome in these classes! They will also be LGBTQ Affirming and Trauma Sensitive.

Special considerations for those interested: Low lighting will be used in the space and classes will be set to music. There will be mild aromatherapy offerings that can absolutely be declined by the individual or class. Consent will be honored as a highest priority! There will be an invitation for gentle flow but participants will be encouraged to listen to their bodies and hearts first and foremost as long as they remain respectful of the rest of the community.

Please, register online here. If you’re a new student to Unfold OC please take advantage of your FREE 20 minute Success Session with studio owner: April Lovett!!!

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Ethical Non-Monogamy 101: Exploring Love, Abundance & Accountability
Aug
7
12:00 PM12:00

Ethical Non-Monogamy 101: Exploring Love, Abundance & Accountability

Challenge Toxic Relationship Beliefs & Understand What’s Right For You


“LOVING OPENLY AND FREELY IS A POLITICAL ACT. PUT TOGETHER YOUR OWN VISION OF AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP, RESCULPT YOUR OWN BELIEF SYSTEM, REDEFINE THE POTENTIAL OF A FRIENDSHIP, IMAGINE A THOUSAND WAYS TO MAKE LOVE TO YOURSELF AND ANYONE YOU CARE ABOUT. AND WHILE YOU’RE AT IT, RE-INVENT YOUR GENDER, SEXUAL PREFERENCES AND ORIENTATION. RADICALIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY IMAGINING YOUR WILDEST IDEAL PARTNERSHIP TOGETHER.”

-WENDY O’MATIK, REDEFINING OUR RELATIONSHIPS

The visibility and acceptance of open relationships is increasing. They’ve always been around in formal and informal ways, but running into them is becoming much more common. You’ll find folks of every sexual orientation and gender identity exploring different formats, and even finding pride in labeling their relationships in alternative ways.

But does non-monogamy live up to the radical hype?

Our relationships, non-monogamous or otherwise, are as radical as we are conscious. Ethical and intersectional non-monogamy asks us to move into our relationships with compassion, equality, and consent.

If we move into non-monogamy consciously, these alternative relationship styles challenge us to listen to our hearts and our partner(s) when something feels off. They allow us to evolve as needed rather than remaining stuck.

The truth is that there isn't one right way to be in a relationship — but society sure teaches us that there is.

This belief can have a wide range of effects on our lives. It can make us question the value of a relationship if it isn’t following the expected monogamous trajectory towards marriage (even if it’s fulfilling to us.) It can force us to place those closest to us on a value hierarchy scale that privileges romantic relationships over platonic ones. It can even romanticize jealousy and create unhealthy expectations around our partners being responsible for our happiness.

THIS WEBINAR IS FOR YOU IF:

  • You’re interested in non-monogamy but have no idea where to start.
  • You like someone who is non-monogamous.
  • You’re firmly monogamous but want to re-examine your beliefs about relationships.
  • You’re in a non-monogamous relationship but are noticing that similar oppressive structures/expectations are still present.
  • You struggle with jealousy in all of your relationships.
  • Your heart has just burst open because you fell in love twice in the same day!

In a time where fear, disconnection, and lack of empathy seem to be the status quo, this workshop is an invitation into a different way of thinking about love and relationships.

It will challenge our beliefs about power, priorities, jealousy and scarcity, and it will offer a framework of faith in abundance that is informed by accountability. We’ll discuss functional ways to communicate, make commitments, and work through the emotions that come along with re-defining the rules of love.

Are you ready?

Live Webinar Date:
Tuesday, August 7th
3PM EST/12PM PST, 90 min

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Dating and Sex After Trauma
May
22
12:30 PM12:30

Dating and Sex After Trauma

Reclaim your right to pleasure in your body and connection in your relationships.

The work of healing from trauma to reclaim our right to pleasure in our bodies and connection in our relationships is complicated, yet profound. Nurturing our ability to engage in a safe and empowering way with dating and sex can be both the agent of change in our healing and a symbol of the healing itself.

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Pajamas, Popcorn, and Porn: Slaying the Shame Monster Under the Bed
Mar
11
5:00 PM17:00

Pajamas, Popcorn, and Porn: Slaying the Shame Monster Under the Bed

The smorgasbord of internet erotica may leave us intrigued and ready for action, but have you ever wondered what keeps your porn consumption a private party for one?

When examining our identities, interests, and arousal, exploration is often halted by shame and stigma. In this workshop we’ll work to defeat these internal monsters. We’ll move from the repression of silence towards a more liberated and fulfilling format of self-exploration, communication, and interactions.

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Woodfull Sexual Freedom Summit
Aug
4
to Aug 7

Woodfull Sexual Freedom Summit

Cache Confidence


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Even the most sex positive individuals and providers may find themselves shy when it comes to personal browser histories. However, the adult industry flourishes with an abundance of diverse consumers and reasons for consumption.

Is it possible that breaking the silence around the consumption of commodified sexuality can decrease the shame we have around our own bodies and identities?

So excited to get to join the folks at the Woodhull Sexual Summit with a more social justice oriented format of our Clearing the Cache talk! 

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Summer Flow
Jun
27
6:00 PM18:00

Summer Flow

This will be a heated hatha flow class appropriate for the active yogi looking to lean into the energy of the summer season! Practice will utilize aromatherapy, be meditative in nature, linked to breath, and structured with the intention of grounding and centering. A quiet space will be observed in the practice room before class. You may want to bring a towel and extra water to this practice. 

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Love and Light Practice.
Jun
25
4:30 PM16:30

Love and Light Practice.

Dearest Deep Dog Community,

My heart has been so filled by my practice here at this studio. We have practiced so many Saturdays together in LOVE and LIGHT! I hope you'll join me for one more! Saturday, 6.25.16 @ 8:30am we'll join to Greet the Day together one more time! With music offering by Skye!

In love and light,

Traci 

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Summer Flow
Jun
20
6:00 PM18:00

Summer Flow

This will be a heated hatha flow class appropriate for the active yogi looking to lean into the energy of the summer season! Practice will utilize aromatherapy, be meditative in nature, linked to breath, and structured with the intention of grounding and centering. A quiet space will be observed in the practice room before class. You may want to bring a towel and extra water to this practice. 

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Contemporary Relationships Conference
May
13
to May 14

Contemporary Relationships Conference

Clearing the Cache: Demystifying and Destigmatizing Porn Consumption in Contemporary Relationships

There is a lot of work done around the problematic nature of pornography: how it represents our sexuality, what the acceptable amount (if any) it’s okay to consume, and the politics of the industry itself. Even the most sex positive of individuals, couples, and providers may find themselves a bit shy when it comes to our own personal browser histories. Still, the numbers remain the same. The industry continues to boom. There is a lot of porn being watched and not always by the demographic you might think. So why is there so much shame around it? If we’re all doing it, why can’t we talk about it? Is it possible that breaking the silence around the consumption of commodified sexuality might also shed some light on our most private pieces of identities and relationships?

  • Start the discussion around destigmatizing and demystifying our culture’s consumption of pornography.

  • Create a basis for the consideration that there are ways the consumption of pornography may have value and empowerment properties for the individual and the relationship.

  • Give some recommendations on how to open up communication about what we are drawn to, why, and how it can increase intimacy and self-awareness.

So excited to be heading back to ATX for the Contemporary Relationships Conference! I'll be teaming up with Kristel Penn of TAIF (Trans Adult Industry Foundation) and Grooby to talk about shame and porn consumption in relationships. 

Lindsay Lege, co-conspirator of Poly 101... Or 2... Or 3... will also be there doing a sneak preview of what we have in store in our online training! Hope you can make it!

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Trans* Conference 2016: "The Talk"
Feb
26
to Feb 27

Trans* Conference 2016: "The Talk"

I'm very excited to be presenting on the "Coming Out" process at this year's Trans* Conference at UC Riverside! 

"The Talk"

The "Coming Out" process has been picked up by media, television, and social justice campaigns. Documentaries and tell-all stories boasting the courageous nature of flying out of the closet are at our fingertips (and computer screens). While reflections of our stories are helpful, it can sometimes distract from the fact that the "Coming Out" process is a highly intimate, vulnerable, and functional process of how we take care of ourselves and build our support networks. This workshop will help participants clarify their needs/wants in coming out to different folks in their lives around gender identity and how to clearly articulate the pieces of their identity they are ready to disclose. 

Please note: This is a closed space for people who are Trans, Non-Binary, or Gender-Questioning.

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